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As we grow older
2020-12-28 08:44  

     Mention "getting old",I have mixed feelings in my heart,How wonderful it would be if I could live long, long live!but,In the silent passage of time,The traces of the years crept into the corners of my eyes,The hair of the head slowly changed to white hair,Swift action gradually turns to faltering...All of these,Let me vaguely feel: the old shadow is approaching me step by step!

    Several times, I was alone dragging the footsteps of no longer young, walking the sunset, sitting to see the ebb and flow of the Pearl River, the spring water splashed my heartstrings, touched my怀旧Complex, dusty years of the past rushed out like a crazy beast, my eyes quickly passed a group of familiar figures and those unforgettable memories...

    That winter, a heavy snow, I was given a snow-covered world, the lotus pond river behind the house was covered with a thick layer of ice, I and a few small partners against the wind and snow, in the screams, happy to slip on the ice, enjoy the chase and play, at this moment, it seems that the whole world is ours。As we rush toward the center of the river,Suddenly there was a slight crack of ice,When I panic,It adds to the strength under your feet,Ice rupture,One of my shoes got iced water in it,Maybe it was a survival instinct,We turned and galloped towards the shore,The speed is so fast,Maybe it surpassed Liu Xiang's later world record。

    After the college entrance examination that year, after more than 30 days and nights of hard work等待That morning, I finally got from the head teacher Wang老师Where to get the long-awaited"大学"Admission Letter," and I read it and I read it,理想The school!The ideal major!I immediately blood boiling, this is my sensible since the dream of good news!

    I hurriedly said goodbye to teacher Wang, humming a little song to go home, along the way, I was excited, this is a new生活Initial excitement。You know, from this moment on, I said goodbye to the cold window of hard study中学Career, bid farewell to the "face loess back to heaven" rural life...I'm desperate to get home,希望Tell the family the exciting news as soon as possible, tell the one who is worried about his son's future母亲Usually less than two hours away, that day, I seemed to walk a whole century。

    I was, like, so young, so青春Flying, bathed in the sun, leisurely roaming in the time tunnel, with frivolous dancing with their own young。However, the little boy who carried a small bag and stole a few sweet potatoes in it scamper to school is now fifty years old;The one that snuggles in妈妈The full cub in his arms has already had his own孩子;The urchin who loved to sneak down the lake to collect lotus has become a permanent fixture on his face笑容Pattern of old men...Think about today, think about the past, the passage of time伤感Suddenly hit the face, a kind of desolate感觉Pouring into my heart, one piece, one pile into a low complaint of rain, let me unconsciously in tears。

    从童年To the teenager, from the teenager to the youth, from the green to成熟,从拥有失去From loss to possession, the time of more than fifty years seems to have happened and passed in a single thought。I'm still immersed幸福回忆当中,突然,A drop of cold water fell unwittingly on the tip of my nose,The chills hit me all over,To drag me back from the hallucinations of memory,I looked up at the sky,Maybe it's the rain,There are few pedestrians on the green road by the river,Occasionally walking through a pair of white-haired couples with each other,They bloom like little flowers in the rain,Caught my eye。I especially envy them, watching them go far away, simple appearance, simple感情And I suddenly had a strange feeling感动I think the taste of mutual help, perhaps only in this can taste it!Of course, I was also quietly asking myself: "I and妻子Can we grow old together like them?I am ashamed to think that my wife and I have known each other since 1992, and it has been more than 20 years this year, and I have never had a flower with her浪漫Much less享受I have been lovey-dovey happy time, even hand in hand travel behavior is rarely。

   To be honest, my wife makes me习惯Except for the temper, other aspects are very good to me, typical "bark is worse than bite."。Married day,We ride together,Together through thick and thin,She's looking out for me everywhere in life,She does most of the housework,I just go to work stupid,To be silly and socialize...When I'm out on the road all day,Dragging his tired body home,She served a cup of hot tea,A pair of slippers handed over,A warm current will quickly come over me,Makes me feel at home温馨Loving care,Let me do this scenario more than once: after retirement,I want to be like that old couple,Support the white-haired wife walking in the shady path,Speak slowly to your wife,To comfort her heart that has worked hard for our little family all her life,Let her understand what is called "holding the hand of the son?,Grow old with your son"。

   An inch of time an inch of gold, an inch of gold can not buy an inch of time。Unconsciously, I jumped over the threshold of 50 years old, high blood pressure, high uric acid, high blood fat followed, everything came so quietly, everything came so ruthless, let me feel a powerful force is gradually swallowing themselves。Before I was ready, the green years were leaving me, and the old age was running towards me。

   Everything, let me start thinking about the old days: dentures, hearing AIDS, wheelchairs...Just thinking about it, it makes me感悟生命Precious, let me gradually淡泊名利, become calm, become知足Always happy;More and more kind to every dawn and dusk of life, more and more enough勇气Face the coming of old age!


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